My Chérie brings motivating, intelligent art-pop in latest single, 'Don't Compare Yourself'

Adelaide’s ethereal pop sensation, My Chérie returns with her latest single, ‘Don’t Compare Yourself’ - a track that delves into the universal anxiety induced by the incessant choices and expectations prevalent in today’s Western Society.

Drawing inspiration from personal experiences, My Chérie captures the essence of the constant struggle to find contentment amid the societal pressures and the endless array of opportunities presented. The lyrics speak to the pervasive feeling that others are leading more fulfilling lives, causing listeners to question their own paths.

‘Don’t Compare Yourself’ is all about balance - My Chérie shifts between ballad-esque piano with soft vocal musings, and glitchy, textured Jungle-lite, harnessing a overly distorted vocal melody to become a lead instrument, juxtaposing with sweeter harmonies. It’s an interesting and captivating blend, with ‘Don’t Compare Yourself’ becoming a musical metaphor of the old grass is greener on the other side proverb. Motivating, intelligent alt-pop that makes you take a look at your inner-self. 


Despite being a universal struggle experienced at all ages, My Chérie's focus when writing this track revolves around the challenges faced in her late twenties, grappling with societal expectations to attain a home, husband, and children— benchmarks set by previous generations at this stage of life. Raised in South Africa, My Chérie navigates a distinctive journey, contending with cultural Afrikaans pressures and balancing her Christian faith with her queer identity. 

Reflecting on her experience, My Chérie shares:


“In my personal life, my art has allowed me to break free of the conformity of my religion, cultural background and the confinement of being put in a box - either as a Christian or as a Queer person.”


At its core, 'Don't Compare Yourself' encourages listeners to embrace their unique journeys, urging them to find solace in the present moment. The song conveys a positive and empowering message, emphasising the importance of self-trust and the beauty in simplicity.

Listeners can expect a positive and uplifting experience, with windows-down, sing-along moments in the chorus that are sure to leave them captivated. Serving as an enticing introduction to a two-part ethereal release, this musical endeavour has been in the making for two years. The evolution of the song from its initial stages to the final result has been a journey of patience, with the end product diverging significantly from where it all began. 

For fans of Mallrat, Grimes, Billie Eilish, Caroline Polachek and Aurora, 'Don't Compare Yourself' is a must-listen, offering a refreshing perspective on self-acceptance and finding peace in the midst of an overstimulating society.

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